They died together – by fire. The house they both
shared as man and wife is also in ruins, burnt to the ground. As at the time of
writing this report, the charred body of the woman lay morbidly in the midst of
the debris. Approaching the burnt building, certain eerie feeling hits with a
good impact. The man, who was saved from dying with his wife inside the fire,
died on the way to hospital. “You can say both of them died together,” observed
a shocked, grieving neighbour.
The puzzle now
is not just that the couple, Patience and Monday Chilaekezie died by fire. To
the Umuodu community in Ezinihitte Local Government Area of Imo State, it is
that they can hardly understand why Patience could have been so incensed and
callous to the extent of setting herself and her husband on fire.
Chidinma,
Monday’s younger sister’s accounts of events leading to the tragic end,
indicate that Patience had carefully planned it all. According to her, Patience
had been grieving that her husband of 12 years had decided to send her away. It
was learnt that the couple had married for that long without children. As
Chidinma said, her brother had made up his mind to bring in another woman
within the community who was pregnant for him.
It was said that
Patience, a petty trader, had lured her husband into their house, poured petrol
on both of them and then set the house on fire. It was also said that while
they and the house were burning, she held fast onto her husband to ensure that
he did not escape the inferno.
Saturday Sun
gathered that neighbours, who noticed the flame and heard the cry for help,
were able to rescue the man who later died on his way to the hospital.
Community members, who rushed to see Patience’s charred body when the fire had
burnt out, was gripped by fear and horror.
Chidinma further
told Saturday Sun that her brother was able to run out from the inferno alive
but died 20 minutes later on the way as they were rushing him to hospital.
In tears, she
recalled that on the day of the incident, being January 11, 2014, her brother,
who was an automobile technician, had gone to his shop as he did every day. His
wife, popularly known as Madam Oil, had also left the house for her shop at a
local market. However, a few hours later, she came back to the house. She was
said to have been seen with a keg that, in the instance, could be containing
petrol, with which she later sprinkled round the house.
According to
Chidinma: “She called my brother that there was an emergency and that he should
rush back home. I was at home then, but in the next building. He was the one
that told me that his wife just called that there is an emergency. While he was
stepping into the house, I heard him call on his wife that he can perceive the
smell of fuel all over the place. In less than one minute after he went inside
the house, the house started to burn.
“I heard my brother screaming for help. I think by then
he was struggling with his wife. We were able to reach them and my brother was
brought out alive, while his wife was burnt beyond recognition. Shortly before
he died, he told us that his wife had finally fulfilled her promise. My brother
said that his wife was threatening that she would kill him and kill herself
too.”
On a possible reason she could have done that, Chidinma
said: “They had been married for years without any child. This has caused a lot
of problem between the couple to the extent that my brother secretly married
another wife. The woman gave birth to two girls and is pregnant now with the
third child. When she finally discovered, she was devastated because she had
severally pleaded with her husband to allow her adopt a child. The last family
meeting we had, she was told to leave her husband’s house if she was not ready
to accommodate another woman who had given her husband children. Since that
day, she had been living a secluded life, most especially when the family made
it clear that they would not accept a bastard as a child in the name of
adoption. Nobody knew that she would get to this point of committing suicide.”
Another eyewitness, who is also a neighbour, claimed
that he saw the deceased sprinkle fuel round the house. “Initially, I thought
it was holy water because she had turned into a prayer warrior ever since she
could not get pregnant. She was always depressed because her fellow women in
the community jeered at her especially when they heard that she refused to
allow the other woman to live in their husband’s house. We were all shocked to
realise that she actually planned to kill herself and the husband.”
A woman, who later introduced herself as Mama Chima,
claimed those days before the incident, Patience was selling off her wares at a
give-away price. “It was more like an auction market. When I asked her what was
going on, she said that she was trying to change to another line of business.
She was always crying, and mumbling to herself.”
Also at the scene was the second wife who wept
uncontrollably. “What kind of bad luck is this? Who is going to take care of my
children and me? He promised to drive the other woman, so that we can have
peace in this house. It is nobody’s fault that God did not give her a child,”
the unfortunate woman lamented.
Imo State Police
Command Public Relations Officer, DSP Jane Elemoko, confirmed the incident to Saturday
Sun
It is God Almighty that gives children to whosoever He wishes and as it pleases Him.
ReplyDeleteWhat a life? Some people do not know the pain of childlessness,the woman was a very unhappy person and thet kept adding to her pains by making fun of her. It is sad that she acted this way,may God forgive her. Let the Children mama take care of her children onbehalf of her dead husband.
ReplyDeleteWhy?why?? and why??? is it that all the bad things that happens this days is either owerri the imo state capital or another local government in imo state.imolite you need to pray so hard for your state because the devil is gradually taking control of your state.may god deliver you.
ReplyDeleteAmaka and Ify,if marriage is all about having sex without child.99% of men would never mary.i know how you feel as ladies but as you may know the main ingredients of marriage is the fruit of the womb.may god in his infinate mercy forgive patience over her action and rip to her late husband too.
ReplyDeleteHonestly u are correct.
DeleteFamily members who discouraged him from adoption shd take care of those children. Foolish in laws. God pinish all of you.
ReplyDeleteThe family and the pregnant woman should be arrested. Useless illiterate people. Are they God who gives children. If they are the so-called fruitful woman should have given birth to male children. Ndi -ara. Aturu lokoja. Ewu hausa
ReplyDeleteMay God forgive all of us but to be sincere. What the man and his family did is very wrong a woman into marriage for good tewelve years without child don't you know she was into problems and you keep on adding to the problem. That is what led to this uncontrolable situation and again when someone is in trouble we should try and help that person out not to be adding to the problem, aferall we are our brother's keeper
ReplyDeleteYou all need to understand that this thing is choice...some people might be ok with adopting, and some arent cool with it expercially when either of the party is fit to bear children. in cases where the man is impotent the couple might decide for them to adopt or the woman go and get pregnant. i know this might sound disgustin but if you know the sacrifice couples make to keep a marriage then u will understand.
ReplyDeleteSo to me i would blame the late wife (chidinma) for taking the dreastic and unhuman action. we are african's and igbo for that matter, she should know how much children are cherished in ibo land. she would have accepted for him to get a second wife, i know a lot of people leaving in such condition and yes there might be issues some times but they settle and life goes on. and the kids call the two wives mommy. and in few occasion the first wife end up getting pregnant. her lack of patience and i think selfish for not understanding the situation and wicked for making those little children fatherless