One of the mad family member |
For
the family of Mr Ogbonnaya Ani in Umuose Urobo, Uburu, Ohaozara Local
Government Area of Ebonyi State, life can’t be more cruel to seven members of
the household now afflicted with madness one after the other.
Indeed,
70-year-old Ani is swimming in the ocean of grief, anguish and pains. He
paints a perfect picture of a fellow whose gods have not been benevolent enough
to crack his palm kernel for him. Rather, they watch his blessings turn to
blemish.
The
Ani family is being ravaged by the spirit of madness. Take this:
Ogbonnaya Ani’s elder brother’s daughter is mentally challenged. His younger
brother’s son is in the same condition. Three of his own children, a male and
two females, are equally afflicted. His daughter-in-law is not left out. So,
there are six mentally ill persons in the family and, perhaps, still counting.
Worst still, one of Ani’s mentally challenged daughters is heavily pregnant and
no one seems to know who the lover boy is. And before his first wife died, she
exhibited some signs of madness.
Recently,
our reporter encountered the distraught Ani. He told the stranger than fiction
story. There is no doubt that the madness ravaging his immediate and nuclear
families have left its toll on the old man. Sadness is evident in his sunken
eyes. He looked frail and his voice quakes in palpable agony as he spoke. But
for the magnanimity of a relation, Ani and his household would not have had a
place to lay their heads. This is because his mentally challenged son, Igwe
Ani, alias Martin Martin, set his house ablaze. And before help could come, the
structure had been reduced to ashes. So, currently, Ani and his family are
squatters somewhere in Umuose Urobo in Uburu, Ohaozara Local Government Area of
Ebonyi State.
When
the reporter visited the family last Wednesday, Ozieme, Ani’s beautiful but mad
daughter, was hanging around. With her tummy protruding as a result of advanced
pregnancy, she looked vacantly into space, perhaps unaware of her environment
and condition. A few times she smiled and muttered to herself. When asked to
pose for a photograph, Ozieme obliged.
Before
Ozieme became sick, she was a very beautiful girl. In fact, in spite of her
condition, glimpses of her beauty remain. And even in her state of madness, men
still find her attractive and make love to her. The evidence is the bulging
stomach she is carrying.
Tale like no other
“This
place we are is not my house,” began Ani, who spoke in his native dialect. “My
place is further up, after Oriebe. I relocated to this place because of the
problem that I’m facing. I had a small mud house and I made it good enough for
people to stay in before the problem started through my son, Igwe. It first
started with Igwe and his sister, Ozieme joined later. While Igwe’s problem
started at home, Ozieme’s started from outside the community. When she
travelled and returned, she began to behave abnormally.”
In an
agony laden voice, Ani continued: “I don’t know how it started but we suspected
or thought that Igwe joined his mates to smoke all sorts of things. I cautioned
him to stop it if he was indulging in such act but there was no difference. We
used to beat him to stop smoking to know if he would but to no avail. He
started manifesting madness about eight years ago. He was still in primary
school when it started; he was in Primary Four when he broke loose. Because of
the problem, he couldn’t continue with his education. I cannot really say if he
brought it upon himself by smoking certain substances or it is a problem
destined to come”.
Ani
said that the problem reached a crescendo when Igwe burnt down his house. “He
used to pack all sorts of rubbish and dump in the house. It was impossible to
chase him out of the house because he used to wield cutlasses and wood, threatening
to harm anyone who gets close to him. At a point, he had outgrown everybody. On
a certain day, he set the house ablaze and before people could come to fight
the fire, things had got out of hand. That was how the building containing two
rooms, a parlour and big verandah were razed down. Thereafter, we became
homeless, so I brought my wife and kids to stay in a relation’s place. That was
how we relocated.”
Like brother like
sister
Ani
said that his daughter was okay until a certain man from Nsukka in Enugu State
came to seek her hand in marriage. According to him, the man eloped with the
girl, adding that by the time she returned home, she had lost her mind even as
she nursed a baby.
His
words: “In the case of Ozieme, there was a time she travelled to Enugu to stay
with her brother. There she started a relationship with one man from Nsukka and
they agreed to marry. She brought the man home and introduced him to us. After
meeting with us, the man said that he was going to prepare and come back for the
formalization of the relationship. She insisted on going with the man; we asked
her to wait for the man to go and come but she refused. We didn’t see the man
again. When she was coming back, she came with a baby and started behaving in a
manner we could not understand. We tried all we could to deal with the
situation to no avail. This thing happened about five years ago and we have not
set eyes on the man ever since. She didn’t have the soundness of mind to
breastfeed and properly care for the baby and she died. Right now, she is
heavily pregnant, she will be putting to bed anytime and we do not know who is
responsible for the pregnancy.
“Again,
another of my daughter who is married and a seamstress is also behaving
abnormally. I cannot explain how this problem came into the family. From our
parents, we did not experience any such thing. It did not happen to my eldest
brother, who had died.”
Family
tradition
Madness
is becoming a sort of tradition in the family. Take this from Ani: “I cannot
say how it came about because I’m not God. But my brother’s daughter, Nweke is
also having a mental problem. In her own case, someone took her to a town and
later brought her back, saying he could not understand her behaviours anymore.
He said that she was talking out of sense hence he brought her home. So, if you
ask me, I would say that that was the time I started seeing such a thing in the
family. She was the first in the family to be afflicted by the problem. It
started about 20 years ago and it has been spreading from one person to
another. Even my son’s wife who was married from another village and living in
Enugu with Ozieme is also behaving in a way we cannot understand. I learnt that
she is walking about the street but I have not seen her. The whole thing is surprising
to us. It is an unimaginable disaster. It is a heavy burden on us and we do not
know what to do about it. In fact, it is beyond us. If not that we surrendered
ourselves to God in prayer, asking him to protect us, who knows what would have
happened now?”
Wife’s
family involved
Asked
if such trait could be traced to his late wife’s family, he said: “In the
family of my deceased wife and mother of these mentally challenged children,
they had a problem somewhat close to this. But in their case, it wasn’t so
pronounced as this. In their own case, it made them to be talking too much. In
a nutshell, I would say that my wife’s family manifested a semblance of this
problem but it wasn’t full blown like this”.
At a
point, Ani couldn’t continue his blood chilling story as he seemed drained of
energy. Admitting that he was overwhelmed by the development, he, however,
attributed his staying power to the grace of God. “If not God, perhaps I would
have been consumed,” he remarked.
Speaking
on the matter, an Urobo village leader, Chief Augustine Aja Akuma, said: “When
the problem started with Igwe Ogbonnaya Ani, we thought that he had joined some
boys to smoke dangerous substances because, at the time, he just returned from
Kano where he was staying with his brother. We used to tie him with ropes and
beat him in a bid to stop that sort of thing. But the more we tried, the worse
the situation became. It got to a point when he began to strip himself naked
and started behaving in an incomprehensible manner. He started eating dirty
things”.
Chief
Akuma further said: “We were yet to come to terms with Igwe’s condition when
his sister, Ozieme returned from her station and started behaving abnormally.
We started wondering if it was the Nsukka man she ran to that caused it. But if
the Nsukka man was responsible for Ozieme’s madness, what about her brother’s
condition? Again, if Igwe smoked something and it turned his brain as some
thought, did his sister also smoke the same thing? These are questions that
could not be answered. We have been battling to solve the problem without
success. We have brought several prayer groups to the family”.
Affirming
that it runs in the family, Akuma volunteered: “Pa Ogbonnaya Ani’s brother’s
daughter (niece) also had the same problem. In fact, she has been in it for
over 20 years because the child she bore when it started is in his 20s now. We
don’t know how this thing came about because Pa Ogbonnaya’s father and mother
were not known to be mad just as Ani’s siblings were all sound in mind. Why the
problem befell their children we cannot explain.
“About
four or five years ago, Ogbonnaya Ani’s younger brother’s son (nephew), Sunday
Onu, started acting funny. He is a bit calm now because of injections being
administered on him by psychiatrist people but that does not mean that he is
normal. Ani’s three children – one man and two women are affected. His
son’s wife, who we married from another village, suffers the same fate. We
don’t know what this means. We don’t know whether it is a curse or spiritual
attack. As I said earlier, we have invited prayer warriors from different
churches on several occasions and they came to pray with the family, yet it has
defied all solutions”.
Disclosing
that the family is in dire need of assistance, he said: “We are appealing to
government, well meaning organisations and individuals to come to the aid of
the family because they have suffered too much. Ogbonnaya Ani is above 70 years
of age, yet he bears this sort of tribulation. At his age, he ought to be
enjoying the fruit of his labour, he is supposed to be taken care of by his
children but he is the one taking care of them because of their health
condition. Whatever help that could be extended to the family will be of
immense benefit to them.”
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Well we cn nt judge bt I cn only say may God help
ReplyDeleteFather, deliver us from evil. And to this family, God stretch out your healing hand and come to their aid speedily. IJN, Amen.
ReplyDeleteVery sad story, God help the family.
ReplyDeleteAlmighty Allah we sail them through.....amen and we'll not experience any spell or hardship amen.
ReplyDeleteMay almighty God deliver them all in jesus name Amen!
ReplyDeleteThis is pathetic, am sure Ebonyi state is in Nigeria, I hope where the family came from has a representative in govt, local or state level,it will be better if the government come to there aid, instead of lavishing the state wealth on there personal needs, May almighty God see Ani family through.
ReplyDeleteVery sad story!! Father lord heal those family in jesus name Amen
ReplyDeleteThey shuld go to TB jushua .
ReplyDeleteGod knows the best but it is a sad and sorrowful story for the ear to hear. In all may the lord heal them
ReplyDeleteHonestly its a very sad story they should seek 4 true n God ordained Men God DAT will pray 4 serious family liberation. May our lord Jesus Christ in his infinite mercy hear d cries of Ani fAmily IJN*****************Amen
ReplyDeleteGod please deliver this family from this curse
ReplyDeleteIts quite a pity! May the almighty Jehovah heal this family and cleanse its lineage in Jesus Christ's Name, Amen.
ReplyDeleteMay God deliever the Ani's family In Jesus Name...Amen.
ReplyDeleteI pray that Almighty Allah send help from the above, they family needs God intervention.
ReplyDeleteJesus is the only healer,i know he has not forgotten abt ds wonderful family,i pray that God in his infinite mercy heal them amen.
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