Stella Damasus Replies Her Critics


Stella Damasus while celebrating her birthday recently has this to say about her critics and those condemning her relationships on her page.
I have been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled with gossip, scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday and I will not allow other human beings steal my joy regardless.
I choose to enjoy my life because I know I deserve it. Nobody went through my own trying times with me and I did not go through any with others.
When God decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.
Truth is, I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has gist on everybody.
I realized that when I write blogs and articles about important information, encouragement, education and positive things, only twenty percent out of a hundred actually read it and leave comments. The other eighty percent jump at the gossip and scandals and then start to ask me stupid questions. These are people who have not communicated with me in ages but all of a sudden they feel the need to profess undying friendship and a listening ear. The fact that they believe I have the time or energy to respond to the most trivial issues baffles me.
Let me repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as you think”



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Chris Kehinde Nwandu is the Editor In Chief of CKNNEWS || He is a Law graduate and an Alumnus of Lagos State University, Lead City University Ibadan and Nigerian Institute Of Journalism || With over 2 decades practice in Journalism, PR and Advertising, he is a member of several Professional bodies within and outside Nigeria || Member: Institute Of Chartered Arbitrators ( UK ) || Member : Institute of Chartered Mediators And Conciliation || Member : Nigerian Institute Of Public Relations || Member : Advertising Practitioners Council of Nigeria || Fellow : Institute of Personality Development And Customer Relationship Management || Member and Chairman Board Of Trustees: Guild Of Professional Bloggers of Nigeria

10 Comments

  1. Chigraahi... philGrant30/4/13 8:38 am

    The imboglio associated with our rumour monging jounalists is alarming! I love this lady's zest and poise. Though marrying another woman's ex-husband is a heinous sin according to bible injunction, but I think she just said the truth; shut your mouths if you can't focus or appreciate the positive. Nigerians should grow up and be culturally educated and not forming flock of gossips!

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  2. Stella, I love u nd u are a role mordel. What eva dey say, dey have their mouth. A termite dat want to fly high don't listen to ppls talk. @ Phigrant. U said: another woman ex-husband but no more. Carry go Damasus, u no get wahala nd God is on ur side. Happy birthday in areas

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  3. The most important thing its ur happiness

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  4. If ur happiness uis †ђξ most important thing to U̶̲̥̅̊, what about another person's happiness? Marrying another woman's husband is a big sin before God . By so doing, have U̶̲̥̅̊ not taken that woman happiness away? Don't be selfish stella.

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  5. I Think NCC or whhich ever body should place some restriction on bloggers seriously

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  6. Nothing is done right anymore,no conscience,is bad dat people find happiness in another unhappiness,if d whole story we are made 2 believe is true,no absolute happiness,except in God

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  7. Wot has she done to help poor men widows orphans arround her only to make money and spend abroad African mentally we grow old b4 we think wise

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  8. All these won't help .. If they are legally divorced why do u run ur mouth ? Pls let her be .. U tlkn abt spending money abroad wat have u done on ur own to help them.. Must she tell u who and who she has helped ? Abeggi!!! Stella u are an Angel enjoy ur life 4get bad belle ppl #kamzy Love# just saying

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  9. Dis is ur third marriage, pls settle in it n stop playing games.her second marriage was a soured. She took advantage of d young guy n messed his life up. Now a new husband.woman settle in wiv dis one.unless of course u have an ulterior motive oda Dan marriage. May God help u

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  10. All dis tins we are saying can be done by another person outside der.......so y stella now, my role model do d right tin $ leave the rest to God to judge. Happy bufday in arrears

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