Stella Damasus
while celebrating her birthday recently has this to say about her critics and
those condemning her relationships on her page.
I
have been trending for the past two days now. Day one was about people wishing
me well and praying for me on my birthday. Day two is now filled with gossip,
scandals and all sorts, but that is as far as the so called journalists and
bloggers are concerned. As far as I am concerned I had a blast on my birthday
and I will not allow other human beings steal my joy regardless.
I choose to enjoy my life because I
know I deserve it. Nobody went through my own trying times with me and I did
not go through any with others.
When God decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.
Truth is, I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has gist on everybody.
When God decides to bless me, turn my mourning to dancing, turn my tears to laughter and turn my anger to happiness, no man on earth can change it or spoil it.
Truth is, I laughed when I saw some of the blogs and websites quoting and saying things they know absolutely nothing about. Writing things they have heard without concrete evidence, ghosts that cannot show their faces and ask direct questions. But they believe and think that they can wake up one day and decide people’s fate and destiny. Unfortunately they are made to feel important because people hate to read positive things and achievements, but give them juicy gossip and all of a sudden you become the most popular writer who has gist on everybody.
I realized that when I write blogs
and articles about important information, encouragement, education and positive
things, only twenty percent out of a hundred actually read it and leave
comments. The other eighty percent jump at the gossip and scandals and then
start to ask me stupid questions. These are people who have not communicated
with me in ages but all of a sudden they feel the need to profess undying
friendship and a listening ear. The fact that they believe I have the time or
energy to respond to the most trivial issues baffles me.
Let me repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as you think”
Let me repeat myself in case some of these people missed it. “I really do not care what you say or write, the truth is who God has blessed no man can curse” , and if you believe that trying to turn a wonderful birthday into a global gossip game will make me feel bad then I am so sorry this Stella is not as stupid as you think”
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The imboglio associated with our rumour monging jounalists is alarming! I love this lady's zest and poise. Though marrying another woman's ex-husband is a heinous sin according to bible injunction, but I think she just said the truth; shut your mouths if you can't focus or appreciate the positive. Nigerians should grow up and be culturally educated and not forming flock of gossips!
ReplyDeleteStella, I love u nd u are a role mordel. What eva dey say, dey have their mouth. A termite dat want to fly high don't listen to ppls talk. @ Phigrant. U said: another woman ex-husband but no more. Carry go Damasus, u no get wahala nd God is on ur side. Happy birthday in areas
ReplyDeleteThe most important thing its ur happiness
ReplyDeleteIf ur happiness uis †ђξ most important thing to U̶̲̥̅̊, what about another person's happiness? Marrying another woman's husband is a big sin before God . By so doing, have U̶̲̥̅̊ not taken that woman happiness away? Don't be selfish stella.
ReplyDeleteI Think NCC or whhich ever body should place some restriction on bloggers seriously
ReplyDeleteNothing is done right anymore,no conscience,is bad dat people find happiness in another unhappiness,if d whole story we are made 2 believe is true,no absolute happiness,except in God
ReplyDeleteWot has she done to help poor men widows orphans arround her only to make money and spend abroad African mentally we grow old b4 we think wise
ReplyDeleteAll these won't help .. If they are legally divorced why do u run ur mouth ? Pls let her be .. U tlkn abt spending money abroad wat have u done on ur own to help them.. Must she tell u who and who she has helped ? Abeggi!!! Stella u are an Angel enjoy ur life 4get bad belle ppl #kamzy Love# just saying
ReplyDeleteDis is ur third marriage, pls settle in it n stop playing games.her second marriage was a soured. She took advantage of d young guy n messed his life up. Now a new husband.woman settle in wiv dis one.unless of course u have an ulterior motive oda Dan marriage. May God help u
ReplyDeleteAll dis tins we are saying can be done by another person outside der.......so y stella now, my role model do d right tin $ leave the rest to God to judge. Happy bufday in arrears
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