On
Thursday, April 12, the story of Adeshola Enitan Okesanya, a 300 level student
of Nigerian Institute of Journalism (NIJ), Ogba, Lagos on her willingness to
pose nude to break into Nollywood filled various online news media.A
check on Enitan's Facebook page shows a quantum increase in her friends' list.
As at 8pm today, her Facebook friends list which was about 523 but as at the
time of writing this story, it is about 1,039. Speaking
exclusively to www.c5wk6.blogspot.com about the sad
tale, The Team at smoladcrew.wordpress.com joined
force with us and prompted her to write her own True Story. Read Enitan’s Nude
True Story.
I AM AN
ARTIST, NOT A PORN STAR.
My
name is Enitan Adesola Okesanya, I am a year three student of Nigerian Institute
of Journalism. I live like normal people do, I wake up, pray, eat and carry out
my daily activities, which would be to attend lectures but everything changed
one certain morning, on the first week of April 2012.
This is how
the NUDE, BIG BANG story came about.
I
was approached in school by a former school mate who now works with PM News, he
said he wanted to do a story on me since I had done some TV works, he said he
wanted an interview which I granted. In the interview he asked me questions like
why I wanted to act and what is my drive, to which I said acting is my passion,
he asked me if making money was one of the reasons and I honestly told him that
I wanted to be rich (who doesn’t want to be rich). I trusted this certain
person, I mean he never did anything to warrant otherwise, so why won’t I give
an interview to help his career (since I thought that was what I was doing). Boy
was I wrong.
When
I read the interview, I realized I was a pun in his scheme, a plaything to both
him and his Editor or whoever put the title and let the story run. There were
many miss-quotes for eg, I never said “I hate poverty”, I said “I want to be
rich”. They say I have gone nude to break into Nollywood, but they are yet to
show me the nude pictures they have of me. Mind you, I did give them pictures to
run with the supposed story, but they did not use any, guess it would have
deeply flawed their writing.
Addressing
the issue of somebody else uplifting my name with the story and putting naked
pictures alongside it, that is an entire thing all together. This other issue
does not affect only me but affect my entire family. I am the first child in a
family of six, and I lost my father in 2010. Those of you that are first
daughters or first sons know the continuous mounting pressure to be an example
to your younger siblings. My father is DEAD and I miss him so much, all I have
of him is his name, so you see, this thing tarnishes the name my father has
worked hard to maintain (why would I want to tarnish my late father’s name?). I
do not know the real story of the nude pictures and I do not care, I just want
this sordid affair straightened out and it not be the cause of my mom’s heart
attack. One death in the family is enough.
When
this story first blew, I called the person who interviewed me and asked him why he said I had nude
pictures and twisted my words to make me sound like a bimbo, he told me he
wanted to cause a controversy. Can you imagine? A controversy at the expense of
my late father’s name, at the expense of shaming my mother.
Anyway,
the good I decide to take from this is that now I know how horrible people can
be to climb the success ladder. So I decided to write this to let all of you
hear me out, not only that but to share this with millions of young girls like
me who are possible victims of this kind of scam, so that they can learn from
what has been done to me IN THE NAME OF JOURNALISM.
I
have be in productions like Heavens
Gate, were I played a secretary, a niece in Dormitory 8, a maiden in the new movie
I’ll take my Chances. It is left for
you to decide if I would have gotten the jobs from these respectable directors
on the projects if I had done what is said of me. My verdict is in your
hands.
But
remember, before you continue to judge and throw stones at me, put yourself in
my shoes. This could have happened to YOU, YOU or even YOU, yes, any of
YOU.
This story sucks. What is the name of this journalist? How come she cannot sue him, the publisher and the newspaper? I don't see anyone believing her story>
ReplyDeleteHi Enitan, I don’t envy you, esp at this time, but mark my words. It would be appreciated if you do formal petition to NUJ Lagos State, possibly through your school management or cc them, but this is your battle.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I can assure you that guy that said he wanted a controversial story should as well use his own pix. Bet me he is not a journalist in the real sense; there are people who enter professions like journalism with different mindset, invariably wrong ones at that.
You can have issues cleared from the office of public defender, Lagos State, in case you can’t afford a lawyer, by taking the 'journalist' and PM News to court. It’s a case of fraudly misrepresentation. Believe me, the intent was not only to tarnish your family image, but ruin your carry as 'actress' with potential. Taking actions would further show that you are INNOCENT and I hope you have a manager who understands, but from what you said, you seem to be your own manager.
Its a lesson for all of us, including some of us who assume ‘proven journalist,’ pls when next you grant interview, if you ever do in a life time, do personal recording. I am sure you have a mobile phone(s) and being a trainee journalist, you ought to be more vigilant.
I am sure that guy who claims a journalist may not be acting alone!